Have you wondered what factors can best
contribute to having a positive attitude? I have, and I have also learned
so much from my life experiences as a person with multiple physical
disabilities. I would like to take this opportunity to briefly share a little
bit about myself and how having a positive attitude makes such a huge
difference in my life.
Although there are many factors that lead to
having and maintaining a positive attitude, I want to share 5 main tips for you
to consider. This is a great way for us to come together to celebrate October
as Positive Attitude Awareness Month!
Having a positive attitude
leads to success,
both in your relationships and your work. We are able to perform better at
work, in the community, and in our family life if we have a positive attitude. These
tips can help:
1. You are in control – you are in
control of your attitude, so do not let anyone else change your attitude in a
negative way. Even if you are having a bad day, you can choose to remain
positive.
2. You are accountable - Remember that
you alone, are accountable for things in your work and in your life. Do not
blame others for things that happen in your life.
3. Be optimistic – believe in yourself,
your co-workers, your family, etc. If you are optimistic, others will follow
your lead.
4. Be solution oriented – you will
always have challenges in
your life. With a positive attitude, you can come up
with solutions to overcome those challenges.
5. Show gratitude – showing gratitude
means seeing the good in other people, saying thank you, and showing your appreciation.
This will make the other person feel great and help them to have a positive
attitude, which will also make you feel good.
Despite my
multiple physical disabilities, including hearing
loss, vision loss, motor
neuropathy and respiratory functioning, I have faced many challenges throughout
my life which could have caused me to become negative and bitter. However, I
choose to always be as optimistic as possible. According to tip #3, I have
definitely learned from this experience, that it is important to have
confidence and stay positive, even if you are going through a difficult time. As a result, people will be encouraged to
follow you and do the same.
Even though
my health was on a rapid downhill regression
during high school and college, I
was determined to achieve my goals, receive my high school diploma and a
Bachelor’s Degree in Rehabilitation
Services. After graduating from college, I began the next chapter in my life by
working as a Developmental Assistance, here at We Care Arts. This was a great
experience working with clients and other with individuals who also value the
importance of having a positive attitude. One important thing that I encourage
you to keep in mind, based on what I have seen and experienced, is to never
give up, as there is always a way to achieve your goals, live the best life
possible, and set a good example for others.
Even though
I know every one of us is different, I want you
to know how important having
faith is to me. I have definitely learned that if it is His will, He will make
your prayers and desires happen, in His time.
So, how are
you going to maintain a positive attitude today?
Take some time to consider this
and how you can use these tips in your everyday life. Here are some photos of
me and my experiences here at We Care Arts, as well as my amazing companion, my
first service dog who is a Goldendoodle named Sparrow!